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How to Help Someone Who’s Unwell but Insists They’re Not

How to Help Someone Who’s Unwell but Insists They’re Not

The Next Bit Podcast
• 13 min
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Why do so many older people insist they’re “fine” when something clearly isn’t right? In this bite-sized episode of The Next Bit, clinical pharmacist Julia Brooks explains why denial, independence, and fear of being a burden often stop people from speaking up about their health. You’ll learn how to spot the subtle warning signs: like memory lapses, unsteadiness, poor sleep, or increasing reliance on notes that could point to underlying health issues or medication side effects, not just “normal aging.” Julia shares practical, compassionate strategies to help a loved one accept support without resistance, including why education, autonomy, and the right messenger (often an independent expert) make all the difference. If you’re worried about a parent or loved one but don’t know how to approach it, this episode gives you the tools to step in early…and potentially prevent serious decline. Live well and independent for longer. Get your whole of person assessment at www.agebrightly.co.nz The Next Bit Hosts are: Hannah McQueen - Founder of Brightly Mark Leishman - New Zealand TV and Radio Broadcaster Join our community! We love to hear your feedback and questions. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thenextbitpodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61584248556816 TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@thenextbitpodcast YouTube: https://youtube.com/@thenextbitpodcast This podcast was written and produced by the amazing team at PodLab www.podlab.nz